Cheerleaders in the house...

 Yes... I am back. Thought I was ready to leave??? Sorry to disappoint, cause this girl ain't done. The first time went pretty well.. So I am back with another post exposing the DARK side of my family...

Parents first... Time for the next pair.. Actually two. Let me categorize them. Going easy on you so that you make an effort to read rather than click out immediately... If you already haven't.

NUMBER 1 : The YES-MEN [with opinions]

Nobody is excluded from the massive influence of Yes-Men. I am pretty sure most of you may have that one person in your life, who without any protest whatsoever, nods to everything you do no matter whatever that is. I too have many such people in my life, who, lets say may not be the best to keep around you. But I know two people who are the best Yes-Men I could ever ask for...

My dear UNCLE AND AUNT... Love of my life. They are always ready to support anything and everything I do. One of the very few people who don't think I am completely out of my mind and had a cerebral hemorrhage in my mother's womb. THANK GOD..

OH...Here they are.. Ignore my dear uncle's blown up cheeks.. And I know its so hard to not let the little guy overshadow the elders...OK I'll stop, but you get the point. Moving on...

My uncle and aunt love me to the end of the world and they are always by my side no matter what. They love what I do and they just say yes to anything and everything.. Atleast that is the initial reaction.

They do have their opinions and concerns about everything I do.. But they always let me know after I've taken a few paces into the endeavour. So Sweet of them.

But yes... If I am ever ignorant, arrogant, disobedient, irresponsible and all that jazz, that's their fault. 

Oh and of course... They awakened the Monster Of Food in me.. They are to be blamed and I blame them.

Beware of the extent of pampering that you go through. It does really define as you as a person. Trust me people...Trust me. If it weren't for them, I could have taken those super model influencer pictures on Instagram... Just Kidding. I sure am thankful for their work... I LIVE TO EAT.

In contrast to my chill aunt, who cooks amazingly delicious food [the thought makes me hungry], my uncle is the absolute opposite. My aunt is concerned in a normal HUMAN way. But God knows where the level of my uncle's concern is. I am not ready to go there. GOD.. The anxiety he has for the smallest of things is just... I don't even want to start describing. But of course, its the contrast that adds spice to our lives... And that is how I like it.

Now it's time to meet the next pair... My life without these two is purely meaningless. As Yin and Yang as they are, they have the most grandeur in my heart. 

NUMBER 2 : The annoying wonderful CRITICS. 

Critics are one of the most important people you need. Mostly they come from our rival teams. But let me introduce the critics who are with me at home and LORD SHOULD I BE THANKFUL... 

My dear BROTHERS... It's lovely sometimes to dive back in time and relive the old memories of us growing up. How big they've become. I remember the time when I was the tall one.. [so annoying]. 

These two are just polar opposites. The only obvious similarity between them [surely never admitted] is that they love me the most...

OMG...How young and cute do they look... They don't look anything like that anymore.. Nor are they behaving anything like that... They've grown up.. You get what I mean... HUH..

So the little lean guy has grown up to be the

 'I-don't-care-what-you-think-this-is-my-opinion' bro and the little chubby guy has grown up into

'I-have-an-opinion-but-I-love-you-more' bro.

It is a good mix of things. Its good to have someone who, without thinking twice, says what he thinks. No matter what that is about, he is frank with his remarks... Which is hurtful sometimes.. He never puts a filter so.. And most of the time just disses me. So to be honest, I actually don't know if he is honest all the time or is just trying to drag me down.. Anyhow..

It is also great to have someone who has an opinion and yet thinks twice about whether or not I might get hurt by the remark. Most of the time he just agrees to all my decision, even if he thinks its the worst. And I am popular for the stupid decisions I make. THAT'S ME.

But regardless of all the criteria, its what I want and wish to do that matters to them and they are ready to stand by me. My dreams matter more to them than their opinions.

 I believe that I am nothing without them. They play a huge role in my life and happiness. Growing up with them and having them by my side when I need them has been one of the biggest pleasures of my life.

I am sure you all feel the same about your siblings as well. They make you stronger by tearing you apart... That's a classic technique wielded only by siblings. We love them. They love us more. We love them most.

The dynamics of having a brother or sister is universal and is relatable on every level. I would like to think that while reading today's post at least some of you thought of the days when you argued with your sibling about the food in the house or any other small, happy incident.

What can I say.. We all are quite blessed compared to many other people in this world, to have someone by our side all the time, to support us, to care for us and to mould us as perfect as they can.

It definitely is a wonderful feeling to come back after a long day, to a place you call home and have people who love you be by your side, and share the little snippets of your day with. We should always remember to have affirmations for these moments of happiness that we have. 

OK... I'll stop with the advice.. That is not what I aimed for..

Alright. Aright. Alright. That would be the end of today's post. Thank you so much for reading and I hope you all enjoyed it. Do comment down below anything you would like me to write about or want to let me know.

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